Dating numbers game
But after a while, their answers started to fall into three main buckets: Quite literally, I was always the bridesmaid but never the bride. “I gamified dating,” she said, sipping her hot chocolate. It only took me a month to meet my fiance.” “You went on four dates a day? When 45 minutes passed, I politely asked for the check, went home and arranged first-date number two for the next night.
I asked the exact same question of every single bride who hired me to work their wedding as a professional bridesmaid. I set some rules: I would say yes to every guy that asked me out, and I had to ask out guys whenever I felt the urge to meet them in real life.Then there’s the math that says that a woman’s good looks can keep men from approaching her—particularly if they feel the odds aren’t in their favor.